We all have a little crazy in us
I watched the movie How To Lose A Guy In 10 Days and oh my gosh it’s so true. Why do women do all of those things? We go all out to please our men and trying to get them to be crazy about us. From pedicures to Skin rejuvenation treatments, we do it all just to get noticed. I sat and pondered about all of the things that I have done that now in retrospect seem crazy. At the time of course nothing seemed crazy but now it does. I can’t figure out how things can become so twisted in our own minds.
I had a boyfriend who cheated on me. I knew he cheated and was infuriated about it. He was five states away and had turned off his phone. I knew it was off and continued to repeatedly call it. I don’t know why but at the time this seemed completely rational. I wanted answers. I couldn’t wait. I knew he was probably at the bar with the girl he cheated on me with and yet I didn’t care. I deserved to know. What answer was I looking for? I still to this day do not know what I wanted to know. I mean I know I wanted to know why he did it but, was the reason going to matter? It wouldn’t have made me feel better. Only time fixed that hurt.
This movie also showed how women try to mother their boyfriends. Granted it is usually unintentional but, we have all been guilty of this at one time or another. Encouraging them to eat the veggie they hate or pick their boxers up and put them in the hamper. To guys this is mothering them. Seems innocent to us but to them apparently it’s huge. Maybe we as women need to take a step back and just think about things before we do them. Think about if we heard of someone else doing it would we think they were crazy. If so, then it’s crazy.
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